Imagine what it would feel like NOT to need a break from your own damn brain.
Imagine what it would feel like NOT to need a break from your own damn brain.
You are SO DONE with the torturous frustration of knowing you want to be doing something else but can’t seem to find the right button, the energy, the clarity to make it happen. Tying yourself in knots of overthinking, wanting to have a toddler-tantrum, pillow-screaming, feet-stomping MELTDOWN because you’re so fucken OVER IT.
You are SO DONE with the torturous frustration of knowing you want to be doing something else but can’t seem to find the right button, the energy, the clarity to make it happen. Fighting the systems that want to keep you down. Tying yourself in knots of overthinking, wanting to have a toddler-tantrum, pillow-screaming, feet-stomping MELTDOWN because you’re so fucken OVER IT.
The incessant chatter in your head is utterly exhausting.
FUCK.
THAT.
UNHELPFUL.
NOISE.
FUCK.
THAT.
UNHELPFUL.
NOISE.
You want to go for the promotion – or get out of the job completely – but you doubt your talents and keep putting it off. You compare yourself to other women and their achievements and feel like you're falling further behind.
And the worst part? You don't even know what YOU want anymore.
That mojo has done a runner, hasn't it? You feel like a wishy-washy version of yourself, and to be frank, it sucks.
You want to go for the promotion – or get out of the job completely – but you doubt your talents and keep putting it off. You compare yourself to other women and their achievements and feel like you're falling further behind.
And the worst part? You don't even know what YOU want anymore.
That mojo has done a runner, hasn't it? You feel like a wishy-washy version of yourself, and to be frank, it sucks.
What if the problem isn’t you, but the
noise in your brain and
your dysregulated nervous system?
What if the problem isn’t you, but the
noise in your brain and
your dysregulated nervous system?
That’s where this work comes in.
That’s where this work comes in.
It’s about
remembering who the fuck you are...
...and taking aligned, grounded action toward the
life your soul has been screaming for.
Not the life you think you should want.
The one you’re actually fucking living.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck and so frustrated tears constantly threaten.
To feel like your brain is working against you.
So do my clients.
And we all chose to do something radical about it.
It’s about
remembering who the fuck you are...
...and taking aligned,
grounded action toward the
life your soul has been screaming for.
Not the life you think you should want.
The one you’re actually fucking living.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck and so frustrated tears constantly threaten.
To feel like your brain is working against you.
So do my clients.
And we all chose
to do something radical about it.
YOUR LAUNCH PAD FOR SUCCESS
YOUR WEAPON AGAINST OVERWHELM
YOUR CONTROL BUTTON
FOR YOUR EMOTIONS
Makes working on yourself so easy and playful - you’ll wish you’d done it 10 years ago!*
*Actual quote from a VERY happy client!
YOUR LAUCH PAD
FOR SUCCESS,
YOUR WEAPON AGAINST OVERWHELM
YOUR CONTROL. BUTTON FOR YOUR EMOTIONS.
Reconnect. Rewire. Rise.
This is a 12-week 1:1 cognitive + somatic coaching and healing experience designed to upgrade your mind, body and soul.
THERE IS NOTHING ELSE LIKE IT OUT THERE.
✅ Reconnect with the magnificent, brilliant woman you already are, but have forgotten how to be
✅ Clear the mental clutter getting in the damn way of progress
✅ Regulate your nervous system so that you feel like an unshakable Goddess
✅ Rebuild rock-solid self-trust, capable of weathering ANY storm
✅ Clearly and confidently build the future you want
It’s not just mindset coaching.
Not just somatic healing.
IT'S THE POWERFUL INTERSECTION OF:
💪 Deep thought work
💪 Emotional processing
💪 Nervous system recalibration and somatic healing
💪 Inner critic transformation
💪 Playtime - because humour is an essential release tool
Debitch Your Brain® isn't just the name of the programme.
And it’s deeply personal.
A WAY OF LIVING YOUR LIFE
that leads to emotional freedom.
A three month 1:1 online journey together
Workbooks to guide you through your inner revolution
Game-changing weekly tapping videos to soothe and reprogramme your nervous system
Voice-note coaching on the Telegram app for real-time support
A safe and non-judgmental space to explore the inner workings of your mind
Experienced and intuitive cheerleader by your side at every step
Want to talk about Debitching on a free call?
WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH...
✨Life-changing tools to regulate and reprogram your thoughts and emotional responses - that you will use for the rest of your life.
✨A brain that works with you, not against you
✨A new, beautiful and profound relationship with yourSELF, voice, needs, and decisions
✨A deep sense of belonging
✨Tools and belief to navigate complicated situations and the systems of oppression that hold us back
✨Clarity on who you are, what you want and what you stand for - RAHHH
✨The confidence to take up space, speak your truth, and stop people-pleasing
✨Ability to create and hold boundaries - bye bye saying to YES to everything
✨Reconnection with your joy, your mojo, your playful spirit
✨A regulated nervous system so that you feel calm and grounded and emotionally resilient
✨Unshakable self-belief. Like an old oak tree, immovable and grand
✨A sense of humour and compassion around your healing
✨A clear action plan for what you want next in life - and the tools and belief to bring it to life
✨Either already having made the Next Big Thing happen - or you’re on the very cusp of making it a reality
✨A DEEP AND PROFOUND SENSE OF REMEMBERING WHO YOU ARE
WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH...
✨Life-changing tools to regulate and reprogram your thoughts and emotional responses - that you will use for the rest of your life!
✨A brain that works with you, not against you
✨A new, beautiful and profound relationship with yourSELF, voice, needs, and decisions
✨Clarity on who you are, what you want and what you stand for - RAHHH
✨The confidence to take up space, speak your truth, and stop apologising
✨Ability to create and hold boundaries - bye bye saying to YES to everything
✨Reconnection with your joy, your mojo, your playful spirit
✨A regulated nervous system so that you feel calm and grounded and emotionally resilient
✨Unshakable self-belief. Like an old oak tree, immovable and grand
✨A sense of humour and compassion around your healing
✨A clear action plan to for what you want next in life - and the tools and belief to bring it to life
✨Either already having made the Next Big Thing happen - or you’re on the very cusp of making it a reality
What is included?
✨ A 60 min kick-off session (in addition to the 12 weeks) to ensure you understand the cognitive and somatic experience you are about to dive into
✨ 12 week coaching and nervous system regulation experience to reconnect with your innate power, and then fire on all cylinders
✨Telegram Support - invaluable, it’s coaching in REAL-TIME
✨ An SOS EFT 1:1 60-min life-line to use at some point during the 3 months
✨9 x workbook modules to guide you through the process of personal evolution
✨ Weekly live 1:1 Zoom coaching (12 x 60 mins)
✨ Tools to regulate your nervous system - the foundation of EVERYTHING changing in your life
✨ Weekly EFT videos that support the themes of the programme to help upgrade your belief system
✨The M-Power Method - a framework to simplify integration and application
✨A playful and profound tool to identify and heal your internal dialogue aka The Cast of B!tches
✨Invaluable support from the biggest cheerleader, truth-teller and perspective-shifter you will ever work with - that's me!
It's for you if you are:
😵Wanting to do that next move in your career but find yourself stuck, doubting and frustrated
😵No longer willing to be a puppet for your mind to play games with
😵No longer here for CHOOSING to waste your precious energy and time
😵Constantly stuck in your head, spinning the same thoughts
😵Sick of wasting time, procrastinating, and feeling frustrated with yourself
😵Making excuses and breaking promises to yourself
😵Feeling like you've lost touch with your identity, your joy, your direction
😵Struggling to articulate your needs or sell yourself
😵Wanting change but feeling paralysed by self-doubt and mental noise
😵Finding self-censorship is rife (I can’t say or do that here)
😵People-pleasing all over the shop
😵Experience fear of being “too much” or the squirm of being “not enough”
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU ARE NOT COMMITTED TO MAKING CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE.
I ONLY WORK WITH WOMEN WHO ARE
READY TO GO GO GO.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU ARE NOT COMMITTED TO PERSONAL GROWTH.
I ONLY WORK WITH WOMEN WHO ARE
READY TO GO GO GO.
A little bit of client love from previous DBYBers
Erin Hickman -
Tech Leader
Katherine Lord -
Company Director
Priyanka Gupta -
Finance Director
Mary Roger -
Project Manager
👈Check out this video Erin talking about my Debitch Your Brain programme. And this was BEFORE it had tapping in it!
I met her when I was the speaker for Women in Tech in London and she then signed up for my 3 month experience.
'Literally every woman would benefit from this training. We need more women in corporate jobs to know about this work and to ask for coaching from their employers.'
What makes Debitch Your Brain® different?
You’ve never seen a programme like this.
Debitch Your Brain isn't just the name of the programme. It's a process, an ethos, A WAY OF LIFE that leads to emotional freedom. Hmmm yummy! You'll be talking to your friends about it. Teaching your teens about it. Laughing about it.
Debitch Your Brain® uses humour as a tool and introduces you to The Cast of Bitches - then teaches you how to shut down their radio station (Bitch FM) and upgrade to something way more empowering. Healing old wounds as you go. Unique AF.
💡 Cognitive + Somatic
I combine mindset work AND nervous system work (EFT tapping, somatic practices, thought rewiring). This isn’t just “thinking differently” - it’s actually feeling different.
💡 Humour + Honesty
This is not a grey, serious corner of the internet. We laugh, cry, and drop f-bombs while transforming.
💡 You’re not just learning tools - you’re upgrading your belief system and your sense of Self
A Wise Rebel. A woman who thinks on purpose, acts with clarity, and feels safe being fully herself. In this programme you will learn SELF COACHING TOOLS that will stay with you for LIFE.
Got some ICK about making the leap?
❌ “I don’t have the money right now.”
💥 Truth: How much is your mental chaos costing you?
Missed opportunities, people-pleasing, burnout, procrastination - it adds up.
This programme is designed to give you tools for life - and make sure you actually use them. Flexible payment plans available - because your healing shouldn’t wait for a financial windfall.
❌ “Now’s not the right time.”
💥 When is the right time?
When you're less stressed? When life’s calmer?
That's the lie your brain loves. But here’s the truth:
It gets quieter and calmer after you start. Not before.
If not now, when?
❌ “What if it doesn’t work for me?”
💥 It’s not a magic wand - it’s a RADICAL process.
If you show up, stay curious, and use the tools, things WILL shift.
You won’t be doing it alone - I am Your Ultimate Cheerleader
❌ “I don’t have the money right now.”
💥 Truth: How much is your mental chaos costing you?
Missed opportunities, people-pleasing, burnout, procrastination - it adds up.
This programme is designed to give you tools for life - and make sure you actually use them. Flexible payment plans available - because your healing shouldn’t wait for a financial windfall.
❌ “Now’s not the right time.”
💥 When is the right time?
When you're less stressed? When life’s calmer?
That's the lie your brain loves. But here’s the truth:
It gets quieter and calmer after you start. Not before.
If not now, when?
❌ “What if it doesn’t work for me?”
💥 It’s not a magic wand - it’s a RADICAL process.
If you show up, stay curious, and use the tools, things WILL shift.
You won’t be doing it alone - I am Your Ultimate Cheerleader
Money-Back Guarantee - Seriously.
Money-Back Guarantee - Seriously.
If you show up, COMMIT and do the work, and don’t feel like your life has changed?
You get your money back.
No awkwardness. No bullshit. Just integrity.
Because I know this process works - and I believe in it so much, I’m willing to take the risk. It’s changed my life. It’s changed my clients’ lives. It can change yours too.
You bring curiosity and commitment. I’ll bring the tools, the humour, and the transformation.
You won't want a refund - you'll wish you did this 10 YEARS AGO instead!
If you show up, do the work, and don’t feel like your life has changed?
You get your money back.
No awkwardness. No bullshit. Just integrity.
Because I know this process works - and I believe in it so much, I’m willing to take the risk. It’s changed my life. It’s changed my clients’ lives. It can change yours too.
You bring curiosity and commitment. I’ll bring the tools, the humour, and the transformation.
You won't want a refund - you'll wish you did this 10 YEARS AGO instead!
Debitch Your Brain Recap:
✨ 12 week programme to demystify and simplify ‘mindset work’ that gets results - fast - without confusion. Makes working on yourself so easy - you’ll wish you’d done it 10 years ago!
✨Tools that will get you out of the overwhelm and indecision you’re currently in, AND THEN pave the way directly to the future you actually want
✨‘Life-changing’ tools that you will use until your dying day for less than you pay per month on your rent or mortgage - or put another way 17p a day for the rest of your life*
✨Everyone gets results with these tools - because they help reconnect with innate resources you ALREADY have inside of you. You are guaranteed to think and feel differently - which is why I offer a MONEY BACK guarantee. I know this work WORKS.
✨Telegram Support - invaluable - it’s coaching on the go! ULTIMATE ACCOUNTABILITY so that you ‘don't forget’ or prioritise other people / other things - and when life gets in the way, because let’s face it - life happens - you get me to help create Plan B. YOU ARE NOT IN IT ALONE.
✨ A 60 min kick-off session (in addition to the 12 weeks) to ensure you understand the cognitive and somatic experience you are about to dive into. START STRONG - get to know me, get to know your 'issues and goals'
✨ An SOS EFT 1:1 60-min life-line to use at some point during the 3 months
✨9 x workbook modules to easily guide you through the process of personal evolution
✨ Weekly live 1:1 Zoom coaching (12 x 60 mins) - your space, non-judgemental space to go wild
✨ Weekly EFT videos that support the themes of the programme to help upgrade and regulate your nervous system AND belief system as we go - access anytime in your client portal
✨Access to meditations and coaching frameworks to help you shine that light unapologetically
*based on living another 40 years
WHEN YOU INVEST IN YOURSELF,
THE RETURN ON YOUR
INVESTMENT IS LIMITLESS.
THE RETURN ON YOUR
INVESTMENT IS LIMITLESS.
Choose from THREE PAYMENT options
and take advantage of limited time early bird offer -
Choose from THREE PAYMENT options
and take advantage of limited time early bird offer -
Sign up before
FRIDAY 11th JULY
and get 3 x BONUS tapping sessions (worth £300)
Sign up before
FRIDAY 11th JULY
and get a BONUS of 3 x tapping sessions worth £300
Pay in full and receive a
bonus EFT session worth £100
Pay in full and receive a 90
min EFT session as a bonus
Spread the investment over three months, delaying kick-off for one month.
Spread the investment over three months, delaying kick-off for one month.
Spread the investment over 6 months with a deferred start
Spread the investment over 6 months with a deferred start
THERE ARE 4 SLOTS - WHICH SPOT DO YOU WANT TO BOOK?
TUESDAY MIDDAY - ALREADY TAKEN
WEDNESDAY MIDDAY
WEDNESDAY 2PM
WEDNESDAY 4PM
STARTING IN AUGUST OR SEPT 2025
Need to chat something through?
THE RESULT?
You stop hiding. You stop spinning. You stop waiting.
You swap shame for self-trust. Noise for clarity.
Stuckness for momentum.
You remember who the fuck you are - and start living like it.
YOU FEEL PROUD, ALIGNED, CLEAR AND
FINALLY STAND IN THE SPOTLIGHT OF YOUR OWN LIFE.
THE RESULT?
You stop hiding. You stop spinning. You stop waiting.
You swap shame for self-trust. Noise for clarity.
Stuckness for momentum.
You remember who the fuck you are - and start living like it.
YOU FEEL PROUD, ALIGNED, CLEAR AND
FINALLY STAND IN THE SPOTLIGHT OF YOUR OWN LIFE.
Meet the creator of
Debitch Your Brain...
Jess Nicks
Certified transformational coach, twice certified NLP Master Practitioner (soon-to-be-Trainer), EFT (tapping), Sound Healing and Reiki Practitioner at your service.
With 22 years corporate experience as a sales, tech and music leader. POW!
At 33, I had a nervous breakdown; a culmination of complex teen trauma, losing my mum at 21, being bullied at work, surviving threat-to-life domestic violence, experiencing crippling insomnia for a decade and being buried by imposter syndrome. I found my way to this work in 2017 as part of my own healing journey.
Then in 2024 when I was 43, I suddenly found myself in hospital for 9 nights with a life-threatening condition called Sepsis - it bulldozed my life and business and I didn't work for 6 months. Thanks to my coaching brain and EFT, I have ALCHEMISED all of these experiences and used them to fuel my work and create my path ahead. Turns out, Sepsis was my biggest teacher.
A woman who walks her talk - I have stepped into my new identity as a comedian, having done my first show - all about the bitches in your brain of course - in April 2025, then landing 6 shows during Brighton Fringe - with rave reviews. I am now applying for funding from the Arts Council because the feedback was SO GOOD!
If you want to upgrade how you show up for yourself, I am the woman to be your guide!
The world of self-dev can be terribly earnest.
NOT ON MY WATCH!
My programmes are created using NLP, neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to change its structure), coaching, feminist thinking and a jolly good sense of humour. I’m a certified coach, 2x Master NLP Practitioner and an EFT Practitioner (tapping).
I’ve also had a 22 year career as a leader working in media, music, tv and tech. I know what it's like to be under the thumb of imposter syndrome, bully-bosses and to navigate the complex road of a squiggly career.
I am on a continuous learning journey to ensure my own personal and professional development. ALWAYS BE CURIOUS.
👆Me on stage in Brighton Fringe! Because YES, I do this upgrading work on MYSELF too!
Meet the creator of
Debitch Your Brain...
Jess Nicks
Certified transformational coach, twice certified NLP Master Practitioner (soon-to-be-Trainer), EFT (tapping), Sound Healing and Reiki Practitioner at your service.
With 22 years corporate experience as a sales, tech and music leader. POW!
At 33, I had a nervous breakdown; a culmination of complex teen trauma, losing my mum at 21, being bullied at work, surviving threat-to-life domestic violence, experiencing crippling insomnia for a decade and being buried by imposter syndrome. I found my way to this work in 2017 as part of my own healing journey.
Then in 2024 when I was 43, I suddenly found myself in hospital for 9 nights with a life-threatening condition called Sepsis - it bulldozed my life and business and I didn't work for 6 months. Thanks to my coaching brain and EFT, I have ALCHEMISED all of these experiences and used them to fuel my work and create my path ahead. Turns out, Sepsis was my biggest teacher.
A woman who walks her talk - I have stepped into my new identity as a comedian, having done my first show - all about the bitches in your brain of course - in April 2025, then landing 6 shows during Brighton Fringe - with rave reviews. I am now applying for funding from the Arts Council because the feedback was SO GOOD!
If you want to upgrade how you show up for yourself, I am the woman to be your guide!
The world of self-dev can be terribly earnest.
NOT ON MY WATCH!
My programmes are created using NLP, neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to change its structure), coaching, feminist thinking and a jolly good sense of humour. I’m a certified coach, 2x Master NLP Practitioner and an EFT Practitioner (tapping).
I’ve also had a 22 year career as a leader working in media, music, tv and tech. I know what it's like to be under the thumb of imposter syndrome, bully-bosses and to navigate the complex road of a squiggly career.
I am on a continuous learning journey to ensure my own personal and professional development. ALWAYS BE CURIOUS.
My programmes are created using NLP, neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to change its structure), coaching, feminist thinking and a jolly good sense of humour. I’m a certified coach, 2x Master NLP Practitioner and an EFT Practitioner (tapping).
I’ve also had a 22 year career as a leader working in media, music, tv and tech. I know what it's like to be under the thumb of imposter syndrome, bully-bosses and to navigate the complex road of a squiggly career.
I am on a continuous learning journey to ensure my own personal and professional development. ALWAYS BE CURIOUS.
👆Me on stage in Brighton Fringe! Because YES, I do this upgrading work on MYSELF too!
Jess Nicks Coaching
Privacy Policy
Terms & Conditions